Clear The Obstacles to Your Success

Do You Sabotage Your Success?

Self sabotage comes in many forms.  Self sabotage keeps your from having the success you most want whether it is on the job, in a relationship or in another area of your life.

  • Release People Pleasing
  • Face Your Inner Dragons: Fear, Limiting Beliefs, Inner Critic and your negative voices.
  • Overcome Overwhelm
  • Recognize the clutter that drains your energy and keeps you stuck.
  • Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed or  a Victim of Shiny Object Syndrome?

Gain confidence in knowing you are much more than your self limiting beliefs and behaviors.

Release People Pleasing

It’s okay to to rock the boat.
If you need a permission slip, here it is.
It’s your turn now.

Somewhere early in life you learned to fit in, to do what others wanted, to gain love and attention. People pleasing leaves you trying to please everyone else except you.  The actual actions of people pleasing keep you from having what you most want.  You’re not alone.  Many women I talk with have spend decades putting others first.

You are magnificent just the way you are, even though you may not yet believe it.  Fear of not being enough, of not being loved gets in our way and causes us to come from a place of fear instead of a place of love.

It’s never to late to be who you are meant to be!

Face Your Inner Dragons: Fear, Limiting Beliefs, Inner Critic and Your Negative Voices

Our Inner Critic and negative voices can be tough.  They’ve been around so long we accept them as real instead of calling their bluff.

  • That voice keeps us playing small.
  • What would you be capable of without those thoughts?
  • You can be the person you were meant to be.

Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed or a Victim of Shiny Object Syndrome?

How do you overcome overwhelm?

Too many expectations.
Too much to do.
Too much information.
Too much to think about.
Too many demands from others.

It’s all too much.
Where do you even start?

  • So how do you settle down and focus on what’s important to you.
  • How do you decide what you want and what to let go of.
  • How do you make those important decisions in your life when no decision feels right.

You can move from a state of overwhelm to a place of peace and calm, regardless of what is happening around you.

Clutter Drains Your Energy And Keeps You Stuck

Clutter comes in many forms. Clutter keeps us stuck. We often think of it as too much stuff, Like the show Hoarders. Or unfiled papers (my personal favorite) or a dirty sink. Clutter can also be our thoughts, our beliefs, our weight, or even friendships and relationships that no longer suit us. Clutter drains our energy and gets in our way of keeping us stuck and having difficulty making decisions or the motivation to get started on a project (or to finish it), even one we want to do. Clutter is both inner, our thoughts and beliefs and outer our stuff and are reactions to other people and events.

There is also difficulty of turning our ideas into reality. Our Inner Dragons flare up, that part of us that wants to stay small and wants to protect us gets scared to we create clutter in all different forms to keep us from moving forward. To keep us safe and small.

Clearing the Clutter and Overcome the obstacles that get in your way

What does the clutter look like?

We’ll focus on your particular type of clutter. Sometimes we get so focused on what is not working that we forget what is.

What happens when we clear the clutter?

Gain clarity and confidence in who you are and what you want.

Taking action starts with easy doable baby steps . Together we’ll decide how you can best move forward in a way that works for you.

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