If money, education, and all the assistance you would need were not an issue what would you most like to create? As a Life and Relationship Coach, I love this question, the miracle question. If my magic wand were working, I would wave it and instantaneously all your dreams would come true. What are you going to create in the next chapter of your life?  What would you do if you could not fail?  Take a risk.  Let go of the fear of failure.


You are excited by the possibilities and let your mind and imagination roam.


You have been carrying a secret heartfelt desire for years and are just waiting for a gentle nudge, a permission slip from the universe that says it is okay for you to follow your dreams.


You are one of the “lucky ones” and every day is another grand and glorious adventure as you follow your dreams.

However, For many of us…….

We have settled life is okay. It is not that great and not that bad. We have become accustomed to the way life is and we are content to stay where we are.

Perhaps you want more….

You don’t know what it is. You cannot answer the miracle question. You just know that you want life to be different but you feel stuck. You may even feel down deep that you are not worth more or that it is too late for you to change.

What would you do if you could not fail?

You may have had a major life transition, the loss of a job, a divorce, an empty nest or the divorce of a loved one. You may just have this gnawing feeling that there is more to life. Sometimes we just reach a place where what was working is no longer working anymore.

Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?
Mary Oliver

So what are you going to do now? No matter how young or how old or how rich or how poor or how educated or even if you have no formal education. You can make choices. You may have been forced by circumstances to make major changes in your life. You may have a choice. You can decide to do the same thing over and over or you can make the choice to choose what you want to create in your life.

You have a choice.

Our biggest limiting factor is not what is happening outside us but our own beliefs and fears. You are the co-creator of your own reality. You can decide what you want to create in the next chapter of your life.

If not now, when?

If you don’t get clear on what you want,  you fail automatically.  Know what you want and go after it.  After all, all you can do is fail.

Read more:  Create Big Change with Bite Size Steps


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